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Goodbye, My Forgotten Love

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I read this somewhere ;' the worst feeling is not being forgotten, but being forgotten by someone you will never forget' yes, it is true . oh! how sad it is to think you mean the world to someone whom you do not even exist in their mind let alone their world .  In your head , you have  found a friend who doesn't even consider you an acquaintance .You  tell everyone who cares to listen that you have found 'LOVE'. BBM status changed, whatsapp display picture changed ,on twitter, instagram and all social networks you are on you become the trending love doctor cum relationship expert. And to everyone around , mother luck has finally smiled on you! with each day, all kinds of advise flow in on how it is a womans duty to build a home  and how patience is the bedrock for any successful relationship and how endurance must be a the accompanying virtue to patience .  The first quarrel and argument and you still say to yourself 'this must work' even thoug...

This thing called love

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Sometimes we are so hurt and just decide to turn our backs on the word love . we do all sort of stupid things, build walls around ourselves and emotions just to prevent another heartbreak and in the process lose that one person who could have sped up the healing process and love unconditionally. here are some of the reasons why wendy thinks you shouldnt give up on love.                                                 1. You cannot force it. Sometimes it’s been so long since you last felt the rush of infatuation that you are ready to answer any Ok Cupid message, accept any date, and meet any available friend-of-a-friend until you get it back again. It’s like a drug that you have gone so long without you can feel the withdrawal lingering in your bones,...