Tuesday 12 January 2016

GOODBYE - MY FORGOTTEN LOVE










I read this somewhere ;' the worst feeling is not being forgotten, but being forgotten by someone you will never forget'
yes, it is true .
oh! how sad it is to think you mean the world to someone whom you do not even exist in their mind let alone their world .  In your head , you have  found a friend who doesn't even consider you an acquaintance .You  tell everyone who cares to listen that you have found 'LOVE'.
BBM status changed, whatsapp display picture changed ,on twitter, instagram and all social networks you are on you become the trending love doctor cum relationship expert.
And to everyone around , mother luck has finally smiled on you! with each day, all kinds of advise flow in on how it is a womans duty to build a home  and how patience is the bedrock for any successful relationship and how endurance must be a the accompanying virtue to patience .
 The first quarrel and argument and you still say to yourself 'this must work' even though the other party shows no remorse or repentance , the second, third... finally, your sense  of reasoning must have been clouded with this fantasy you think is love.
This is all the effect of the 'MARRY BEFORE 30 CRAZE'
To make matters worse he comes home for 'introduction' and becomes a known face in your house suddenly, over the flimsiest of all excuses , HES NO LONGER INTERESTED!!!
END OF DISCUSSION.

I ask - where is the love?is it that easy to forget someone you truly love? how is it that after all the sacrifices and pain it suddenly crumbles? and those small small mistakes now become a very bigggggggg issue ? 

yes, not all relationships lead to an happily ever after but when it doesn't work out , i ask is it true that someone you once loved can be easily forgotten ???

Any way, true love never dies but maybe in this case ,you were the only one in love .

It's hard ,but you have to say GOODBYE, MY FORGOTTEN LOVE